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Courting Equality

A Documentary History of America's First Legal Same-Sex Marriages

Authors: Patricia A Gozemba, Karen Kahn Photographs by: Marilyn Humphries

The inspiring story of America's only successful battle for gay marriage-the court cases, the protests, and finally, the weddings!
On November 18, 2003, the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court granted equal marriage benefits to same-sex couples. The decision provoked a searing public debate over the meaning of marriage and family, civil rights, and the role of religion in law and society. But the experiment went forward nonetheless: thousands of Massachusetts gays and lesbians married and, remarkably, the sky did not fall.

Through engaging storytelling and powerful photographs, Courting Equality takes readers through the volatile public debate following the decision and introduces some of the many lesbian and gay families who have taken advantage of equal marriage laws. In Massachusetts, equal marriage has not destroyed the family but rather has reinforced the importance of love, commitment, fairness, and equality to the functioning of healthy democratic communities.

"Courting Equality is a very important book on several levels. First, it chronicles the events that led up to same sex marriage in Massachusetts, an historic event in our country’s move toward making the wonderful principles of the Constitution applicable to all of our citizens. Second, it shows how political support in the elected Legislature grew rapidly as the reality of allowing same sex couples to love each other demolished the prejudices that prevented same-sex marriage previously. Finally, it reinforces the point—which was no surprise to those of us fighting for equal treatment for all people—that same sex marriage has been an entirely positive thing for thousands of men and women in Massachusetts, and has had zero negative consequences at all. Too often, political literature focuses on the bad news, Courting Equality tells some very good news very well."
—Congressman Barney Frank

“Courting Equality offers timely and vivid testimony to the power of commitment and bears witness to the determination, the love, and, ultimately, the jubilation of thousands of ordinary people who believed in an extraordinary dream.”
—Rev. William G. Sinkford, President of the Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations

“In Courting Equality, Marilyn Humphries’ stunning photos show what the struggle for equality looks like and what it feels like. She, Patricia Gozemba, and Karen Kahn have documented an important piece of American 's ongoing efforts to end discrimination against gay people and same-sex couples. This book shows how some of our own legislators and fellow citizens got to gay people and our families, and our collective journey to embracing fairness. Courting Equality will help others make that journey.”
—Mary L. Bonauto, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, Lead counsel, Goodridge v. Department of Public Health

“Courting Equality is a remarkable chronicle of exactly how social change happens. Marilyn Humpries’ vivid photographic documentation of the fight for same-sex marriage hardly needs any elaboration, but Kahn and Gozemba’s accompanying legal history is riveting. Words and pictures together create a moving, human portrait of representative democracy at work.”
—Alison Bechdel, author of Fun Home and Dykes to Watch Out For

Reviews

Review: Improper Bostonian - May 30, 2007

“The pictures of protests and rallies—both the pro and anti-forces swarming with energy—make you feel like you’re witnessing a combination of the American Revolution and a sizzling Red Sox game. Marginalized no more, these gay couples (in both senses of the word) are photographed goin’ to the chapel, hugging kids, looking joyful, homey, even rather Hallmark mainstream—at last.”

Review: In Newsweekly - May 18, 2007

“For gay marriage boosters, to read Courting Equality is a literary experience of sheer ecstasy, a brief pause of unbridled joy in the ongoing - and by no means over - struggle to preserve and protect same-sex marriage. It's a delightful sneak peak over the rainbow.”Read Full Review

Review: Bay Windows - May 3, 2007

“Hopefully, MassEquality or some other such group will also distribute a copy of Beacon Press’s newly published Courting Equality: A Documentary History of America’s First Legal Same-Sex Marriage to every lawmaker. The book is an elegantly moving and gorgeously illustrated account of the battle for civil marriage rights here in Massachusetts.”Read Full Review