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See Me Naked - Stories of Sexual Exile in American Christianity
See Me Naked: Stories of Sexual Exile in American Christianity
Author: Amy Frykholm
Product Code: 0466 ISBN: 978-080700466-1
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How the strict purity ethic and rules-based culture of American Protestantism has adversely affected the sexual development of many believers, and the intimate and varied personal stories of the roads nine of them traveled to begin to heal.

Stories of sexual scandals in churches throughout the nation have been downright routine in recent years, suggesting to many Americans that a deeply rooted problem plagues American Christianity-and prompting some to abandon their congregations altogether. In See Me Naked, Amy Frykholm takes us beyond simple indictments of, or blind allegiance to, Christian cultures to explore the complex, intimate intersection of sexuality and spirituality as it affects the lives of ordinary Christians.

Recounting with care and nuance the life histories of nine American Protestants, Frykholm shows us the harm done by the rules-based sexual ethic now dominant, which alternately denies and romanticizes sexuality. But she also points to how American Christians might otherwise access their spiritual tradition to heal the divide between religion and sexuality. One story examines the intricate relationship between a man's religious faith and his sexual addiction. In another, a man defines religion as a wall that kept him from the discovery that he was gay. One young woman uses sex to defy her devout parents, while another seeks to transcend her body by going without food. Nearly everyone interviewed in See Me Naked remains a Christian, with some further on their journey than others. Yet each of them is working to understand the connection between their desires and their faith. Ultimately, their stories-stories of pain and violence, perseverance and courage-attest to the healing power of struggling through the wild and uncertain experiences of life.

See Me Naked explores the many ways that people work to recover from harmful beliefs and restores the notion that one of the key insights of Christianity is that the body, with all its struggles, pains, and difficulties, is a vehicle of the holy and can lead us into a more full relationship with God.

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Click here to read a review of Frykholm's work posted on Spirituality and Practice.

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Click here to read a review of Frykholm's work in the September 12th, 2011 issue of Publisher's Weekly.

Click here to read a review of Frykholm's work in the October 1st, 2011 issue of Library Journal.

Click here to read an excerpt from See Me Naked printed in Think Christian.

Click here to read an excerpted essay from See Me Naked printed in the Huffington Post.

Review   Kirkus - September 1, 2011
“A culturally significant collection that explores the challenges of reconciling pleasure with piety.”

"Amy Frykholm has gathered the intimate stories of people of faith in search of wholeness. These tender tales both challenge and encourage the church to listen to voices it might not hear otherwise. When it comes to integrating mind, body and spirit, the Church can serve as curse or blessing. These searingly honest stories compel us to strive for the latter."-The Rev. Lillian Daniel, author of Tell it Like it is: Recovering the Practice of Testimony

"This is a compelling book that traverses the teeming intersection of sexuality and faith in the life of nine individuals. They are stories of very ordinary people's struggles to live as whole beings. Their stories are rendered with such compassion and insight, however, that the result is anything but ordinary. The reader is left with the conviction that the church must, and the hope that it will, minister to people in the fullness of their lives."-The Rev. Martin B. Copenhaver, author of To Begin at the Beginning

"American Christianity is facing a crisis: our easy answers about life after death have left so many with little hope for life in their bodies here and now. Amy Frykholm chronicles this crisis in real time, inviting us to experience the pain of sisters and brothers living in exile from their flesh. But she also proclaims a gentle word of hope: `look again at our tradition,' she seems to whisper. 'Christ is risen in a body with feet that touch the ground."-Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove, author of The Wisdom of Stability: Rooting Faith in a Mobile Culture

"With singular gentleness and a palpable respect for those whose stories she is telling, Amy Frykholm lays bare whole areas of human sexual formation that I had never seen before, much less considered. By using narrative instead of proposition, she exposes very effectively the places where we in Christianized American culture have failed to understand our bodies as a means of holy rejoicing and candid worship. Even worse, she shows us where we have failed to help our children so to do. This is an important book."-Phyllis Tickle, author of The Great Emergence: How Christianity Is Changing and Why

"These disarmingly honest life stories of people navigating the `tenacious strangeness' of their sexual and spiritual lives will stay with you long after you finish this book. So will the gracious, honoring, and insightful ways Frykholm tells and interprets them. It should be on every Protestant pastor's coffee table."-Timothy Beal, author of The Rise and Fall of the Bible: The Unexpected History of an Accidental Book

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