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Outlaw Marriages

The Hidden Histories of Fifteen Extraordinary Same-Sex Couples

Author: Rodger Streitmatter

The engaging and untold stories of fifteen prominent same-sex couples who defied cultural norms and made signifcant contributions to American history.



Screen legend Greta Garbo owes much of her success to her partner, Mercedes de Acosta, who taught the actress how to dress and speak like Hollywood royalty. Frank Merlo weaned Tennessee Williams off a diet of drugs and casual sex so the playwright was able to create his Pulitzer Prize-winning drama Cat on a Hot Tin Roof. Iconic American poet Walt Whitman dotted his master work, Leaves of Grass, with references to his lover and his muse, Peter Doyle. Robert Rauschenberg urged Jasper Johns not to ignore a bizarre dream he had but instead to act on it and paint the American flag-as he had done in the dream. Frances Clayton gave up tenure at an Ivy League university to help her partner, Audre Lorde, reinvent herself as a pioneering poet who gave voice to women of color around the globe.



For more than a century before gay marriage became a hot-button political issue, same-sex unions flourished in America. Pairs of men and pairs of women joined together in committed unions, standing by each other “for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health” for periods of thirty or forty sometimes as many as fifty years. In short, they loved and supported each other every bit as much as any husband and wife.

In Outlaw Marriages, cultural historian Rodger Streitmatter reveals how some of these unions didn’t merely improve the quality of life for the two people involved but also enriched the American culture.

Among the high-profile couples whose lives and loves are illuminated in the following pages are Nobel Peace Prize winner Jane Addams and Mary Rozet Smith, literary icon Gertrude Stein and Alice B. Toklas, author James Baldwin and Lucien Happersberger, and artists Jasper Johns and Robert Rauschenberg.

Couples featured: Walt Whitman & Peter Doyle, Martha Carey Thomas & Mamie Gwinn, John Marshall & Ned Warren, Jane Addams & Mary Rozet Smith, Bessie Marbury & Elsie de Wolfe, J. C. Leyendecker & Charles Beach, Gertrude Stein & Alice B. Toklas, Janet Flanner & Solita Solano, Greta Garbo & Mercedes de Acosta, Aaron Copland & Victor Kraft, Tennessee Williams & Frank Merlo, James Baldwin & Lucien Happersberger, Jasper Johns & Robert Rauschenberg, James Ivory & Ismail Merchant, Audre Lorde & Frances Clayton
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Outlaw Marriages gloriously outs same-sex couples through history and celebrates their love and impact in theater, arts, and social change. If you love the guilty pleasure of reading People magazine for your celebrity-couple news, you’ll love this book. And the fact-checking is flawless!”—Kate Clinton, humorist

“[A] nice gift for just the right couple.”—Kirkus Reviews

“15 love marriages that dared not speak their name defied laws and mores, flouted conventions, and live today in Streitmatter’s essential, well-documented history.”—Booklist

“Streitmatter absorbingly details the public and private lives of notable same-sex couples, deftly examining affairs, betrayals, and disappointments, as well as the enabling power that the right marriage, recognized or not, provides.”—Publishers Weekly

“An engaging and well-researched volume with broad appeal to the LGBTQ crowd (especially couples) as well as social historians.” —Library Journal

“In Outlaw Marriages he distills a wealth of information down to a lively and effective series of double portraits.”—The Gay and Lesbian Review

“…Streitmatter expertly threads together the historical backgrounds and incredible courage of these couples… it’s a damn good bunch of stories told in a very approachable 160-ish pages.”—The Stranger

Reviews

Review: EDGE - May 15, 2012
"Outlaw Marriages is a thoroughly interesting look at gay and lesbian love, life and relationships."
Review: Publishers Weekly - February 1, 2012
“The volume will have particular appeal to readers of gender studies, but these stories ultimately prove that true partnership is gender blind.”
From the Prologue

The couples who come to life in the following chapters were social insurgents. That is, each pair of men and each pair of women defied the social order by creating sub-rosa same-sex marriages long before such relationships were legally sanctioned.

Tennessee Williams and Frank Merlo, for example, began their outlaw marriage in 1948--spending every day and night together, while loving and supporting each other to a degree fully comparable to that of any husband and wife. Their partnership continued until Merlo died of cancer in 1963.

Outlaw Marriages tells Williams and Merlo’s story, along with those of fourteen other same-sex couples who combined their lives either as husband and husband or wife and wife during eras when no legal institution and no church approved of such a union.

The other trait that these renegade couples have in common is that they all fully qualify as, in a word, extraordinary.

In many instances, that powerful adjective fits because of the remarkable contributions a particular couple made to the culture--the fields ranging from literature to modern art to filmmaking. The achievements of other couples include opening graduate education to American women and pioneering a new form of journalism in the pages of the New Yorker magazine.

With Williams and Merlo, their gift was creating some of the most memorable plays in the history of American theater. Williams was addicted to drugs and promiscuity when he met the rock-solid Merlo. The World War II vet then saw to it that the playwright regained his emotional and physical equilibrium, allowing him to write such theatrical masterpieces as the Pulitzer Prize-winning Cat on a Hot Tin Roof.

A few of the other extraordinary contributions that unfold in this book are

? Walt Whitman and Peter Doyle reinventing American poetry

? Jane Addams and Mary Rozet Smith revolutionizing the field of social work

? Greta Garbo and Mercedes de Acosta taking the lead in transforming Hollywood into the celebrity capital of the world

When reading the statements above, you probably recognized only one of the two names in the pairings. That’s because the achievements of one partner often became widely known, while those of the other partner stayed hidden--until the publication of this book.

Outlaw Marriages is an apt title on two levels.

First, all fifteen couples created unions that defied the laws and mores of their day. Many of these de facto partnerships survived and thrived, despite their lack of support by church or state, for thirty or forty years--in some cases, fifty.

Second, these couples flouted convention. Aaron Copland was thirtytwo years old when he met and instantly fell in love with a drop-dead gorgeous violinist named Victor Kraft, who was only seventeen. The composer’s friends and family didn’t take the relationship seriously, convinced the couple wouldn’t survive the dramatic age difference. Copland and Kraft proved them wrong. The men not only stayed together but also jointly created a distinctly American style of music that critics today, eighty years later, are still praising.

That the couples were willing to bend the marital rules doesn’t mean they all succeeded in creating relationships that were made in heaven--far from it. A regrettable scenario that plays out in several chapters begins with the lesser-known partner being absolutely essential to the better-known partner’s rise to success, but then . . . the high-achieving partner getting what might be called the “twenty-year itch.” Martha Carey Thomas set the standard back in the 1890s, summarily dumping her partner of two decades, Mamie Gwinn, for another woman. Janet Flanner went a similar route in the 1930s, as did Audre Lorde in the 1980s.

In the instances listed above as well as in others where the outlaw marriage eventually falls apart, readers hear the whole story--which typically includes infidelity, deceit, and betrayal. These unfortunate factors are revealed in full detail, as they’re the realities that often confront any long-term relationship, gay or straight.

To help the various outlaw marriages come alive in the reader’s mind, I’ve included photos of all fifteen couples. Tracking down these images was often a challenge, especially in the instances when one or both members of a couple--as with Greta Garbo and Mercedes de Acosta--didn’t publicly acknowledge their relationship. And so, in some cases, I’ve had to use two separate photos of the partners, since a single photo of them together either didn’t exist or wasn’t available. There are also instances--as with Jane Addams and Mary Rozet Smith--when I’ve used a photo of poor quality because it shows the partners together, even though higher-quality photos of the two individuals separately could have been used.

Whether a chapter begins with a single image or a pair of them, each story that follows is a page-turner. Sometimes the most compelling element in it is the contribution the couple made; other times, it’s the internal dynamics of their relationship. But one theme runs through them all:

Two people joining together to create an outlaw marriage plays a central role not only in the couple’s extraordinary achievements, but also in each individual partner’s very being.
Prologue

Chapter 1
Walt Whitman & Peter Doyle
1865-1892
Revolutionizing American Poetry

Chapter 2
Martha Carey Thomas & Mamie Gwinn
1878-1904
Opening Graduate Education to American Women

Chapter 3
Ned Warren & John Marshall
1884-1927
Building the Collections of Americaís Art Museums

Chapter 4
Mary Rozet Smith & Jane Addams
1891-1934
Breaking New Ground in Social Reform and Global Peace

Chapter 5
Bessie Marbury & Elsie de Wolfe
1892-1933
Founding the Field of Interior Design

Chapter 6
J. C. Leyendecker & Charles Beach
1901-1951
Taking the Art of Illustration to a New Level

Chapter 7
Alice B. Toklas & Gertrude Stein
1907-1946
Expanding the Dimensions of American Literature

Chapter 8
Janet Flanner & Solita Solano
1919-1975
Pioneering a New Style of Journalism

Chapter 9
Greta Garbo & Mercedes de Acosta
1931-1960
Making Hollywood the Celebrity Capital of the World

Chapter 10
Aaron Copland & Victor Kraft
1932-1976
Inventing a Distinctly American Style of Music

Chapter 11
Frank Merlo & Tennessee Williams
1948-1963
Lifting American Theater to New Heights

Chapter 12
James Baldwin & Lucien Happersberger
1949-1987
Attacking Racism through Literature

Chapter 13
Robert Rauschenberg & Jasper Johns
1954-1962
Expanding the Definition of Art

Chapter 14
Ismail Merchant & James Ivory
1961-2005
Turning Literary Works into Sumptuous Films

Chapter 15
Frances Clayton & Audre Lorde
1968-1988
Raising a Voice for Women of Color

Epilogue
Acknowledgments
Notes
Photography/Illustration Credits
  • Click here to read a recent review of Outlaw Marriages on PrideSource.com
  • For a review in Publishers Weekly, click here to read a Q&A with Rodger Streitmatter in Publishers Weekly's "PW Tip Sheet"
  • Click here to read a Q&A with Rodger Streitmatter in LGBT Today
  • Click here to read a recent review of Outlaw Marriages in Gay City News
  • To read a recent review of Outlaw Marriages by PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), here
  • To read a review from Portland's PQ Monthlyhere
  • To watch a live interview with Streitmatter on Let's Talk Live, a local D.C. talk show click here

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Outlaw Marriages

ISBN: 978-080700334-3
Publication Date: 5/15/2012
Pages: 224
Size:6 x 9 Inches (US)
Price:  $26.95
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