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Just Add Hormones

An Insider's Guide to the Transsexual Experience

Author: Matt Kailey

Matt Kailey lived as a straight woman for the first forty-two years of his life. Though happy as a social worker and teacher, he knew something wasn’t right. Then he made some changes. With the help of a good therapist, chest surgery, and some strong doses of testosterone, Kailey began his journey toward becoming a man.

As his body morphed and his voice dropped, Kailey began noticing subtle shifts in the way he was treated. Men suddenly stopped offering to change flat tires for him but insisted on talking to him about women and bodily functions. Women got nervous when he baby-talked to their infants but routinely asked him to move heavy things around the office. In these everyday exchanges, Kailey recognized the many ways we define what it means to be male. He also realized that, with few role models, he had to learn to accept himself as a person between two genders.

As he writes about his transition from female to male, Kailey answers all the questions you’ve ever had about what it’s like to live as a transsexual. From the fear of public restrooms to deciding whether to “pack” his pants, Kailey explains what the world looks like from his new vantage point-a position more people are discovering as gender transitions become increasingly common.

More than a memoir, Just Add Hormones is full of sound advice for those who may be questioning their gender. And through his story, Kailey offers valuable insights to the families and friends of those who have started a transition.

Funny, fresh, and incredibly candid, Just Add Hormones can help us all consider-and even laugh at-our own notions of what it means to be a man or a woman.
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“Parts of Just Add Hormones dwell, wittily, on the author’s own experiences . . . other chapters offer a cheeky insider’s discussion of pesky pronouns, pants-packing, bathroom blues, and on-the-job jitters. But the real worth of Just Add Hormones stems from its thoughtful analysis-at times philosophical, at times political, and at times polemical-of a life-changing decision.” -Richard Labonte, Q Syndicate

“A heartfelt plea for mainstream American society to understand, accept and support gender diversity . . . Kailey describes all with frankness, engaging his reader with honesty and a touch of humor.” -Kirkus Reviews

“This book is a natural for the gender issues shelves.” -Booklist

“Anyone who has ever contemplated, is just curious about, or finds him or herself in the midst of gender transformation will appreciate and applaud this extraordinary, comprehensive journal. Both informative and quite fascinating, Kailey delivers his life story with a compassionate eye and a true heart.” -Jim Piechota, Bay Area Reporter


Review by: Kate Bornstein, author of My Gender Workbook - January 1, 2005
"Just Add Hormones successfully transcends the great gender divide. With great care, Matt Kailey guides his readers through the easy questions, the embarrassing situations, and the challenging change-of-life moments that are specific to his life but common to many transsexual people. His book paints an accurate and entertaining landscape of transsexual life at the turn of the century."
Review by: Wendy Shanker, author of The Fat Girl's Guide to Life - January 1, 2005
"Anyone who has ever felt inaccurately evaluated from the outside in-and who hasn't?-will relate to Kailey's courageous, humorous, and informative tale of transition and self-acceptance."
Review by: Michael Ford, author of My Big, Fat, Queer Life - January 1, 2005
"Kailey is the ideal tour guide for this unforgettable journey into the transsexual experience. Funny, forthright, and thought-provoking, he demystifies a misunderstood subject with patience and good humor and tells his own story with unusual candidness. This is the perfect primer for those of us with transsexual friends and loved ones, those on their own path of self-discovery, and those who simply have questions about it all."
Review by: Kirk Read, author of How I Learned to Snap - January 1, 2005
"If I were transitioning, I'd give this book to my mother. Matt Kailey makes the wild frontier of gender highly accessible."

Just Add Hormones

ISBN: 978-080707958-4
Publication Date: 6/15/2005
Pages: 184
Size: x Inches (US)
Price:  $21.95
Format: Cloth
Availability: In stock.
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